I prefer to be referred to by name, rather than by personal pronouns. If you have to use a personal pronoun for me, please use he/him/his/his/himself in English and close equivalences in other languages.
If the language has commonly accepted non-gender-specific personal pronouns, please use such pronouns whenever possible and whenever you see suitable. If you are writing in Chinese, please use「他」in the non-gender-specific sense, as I object to the contemporary creation of gendered pronouns in written Chinese.
Above all, please let practicality dictates.